after the fight
Eight repair questions for the night after a hard one. Not to relitigate — to come back gently.
Hard nights happen. The repair doesn't have to be a meeting. It can be a few small questions, asked softly, with the lights low.
These eight cards are for the night you're both still half-tender. Don't move through them quickly. The space between answers is part of the answer.
If neither of you is ready, close the deck. It will be here tomorrow night, too.
Not to win. Not to relitigate. To come back.
what part of you was actually hurting, underneath what you said?
long-press the bookmark to keep one
bedside conversations
Twelve small questions to ask the person beside you tonight.
begin →first-month nights
Ten gentle questions for the first month of nights together.
begin →the slow sunday
Ten questions for couples who haven't asked in a while.
begin →where do your dreams take you?
A two-person quiz: where do your dreams keep going, and which places do you share?
begin →